Two Men

Today I let go of two good men in my life. One to God where he rightly belongs. The other one to the girl of his dream.

So this is how letting go feels – in oblivion, in daze, like a dream. Maybe close to denial. I hope this is not happening.

And what does it mean? Another denial but that to self. A death to self. The path to selflessness. Maybe close to dreaming and hoping for the best not of the self anymore but the other person. Respecting their choices, honoring God’s best for them. The path they have chosen, the path He had revealed.

So goodbye *Hassan, my dear friend and soulmate. Goodbye *Laam, my dear brother and friend.

Can there be love in letting go? Or is it the path of loving itself, to let go?

What I know is that I have loved, is loving and will love some more that is why I’m letting go.

What's Next? Crossing the Bridge When There Is One...

*a nom de plume

When You Say You Love Me

Like the sound of silence calling
I hear your voice and suddenly I’m falling
Lost in a dream
Like the echoes of our souls are meeting
You say those words, my heart stops beating
I wonder what it means
What could it be that comes over me
At times I can’t move
At times I can’t hardly breathe

When you say you love me
The world goes still, so still inside and

When you say you love me
For a moment, there’s no one else alive

You’re the one I’ve always thought of
I don’t know how but I feel sheltered in your love
You’re where I belong
And when you’re with me if I close my eyes
There are times I swear I feel like I can fly
For a moment in time
Somewhere between
The heavens and earth
I’m frozen in time
Oh when you say those words

When you say you love me
The world goes still so still inside and
When you say you love me
For a moment, there’s no one else alive

And this journey that we’re on
How far we’ve come and I
Celebrate every moment
When you say you love me
That’s all you have to say
I’ll always feel this way

When you say you love me
The world goes still so still inside and
When you say you love me
In that moment, I know why I’m alive

When you say you love me
Do you know how I love you

(by Josh Groban)

I know full well of that which I speak of.

Falling in love
Feeling so alive
Coming out so uncertain
Things beyond understanding

Standing somewhere between living and dying
The ecstacy of something so unfamiliar
Why am I feeling this way
Where is this coming from

Something not part of the common
But something that feels so good
Is there something wrong with me
Must I linger in this state

Is this wrong or right
Where is this coming from
Is this from you, Oh God
Is this part of the shaking

Or is this something from you
So good and so natural
Which everyone has to go through
To receive and to give

Trust, yield
Hold on to it
Enjoy, be grateful
Give and receive

Share it, express it
Let it out of your system
C'mon girl, let it go
It is worth it

The only regret there is
Is by not receiving it
Denying and keeping
What must be enjoyed and shared

This is from the Lord
This is a gift, an honor
A mystery in itself
A joyful anticipation

A birthing and rebirth
A dying over and over
A hopeful resurrection
Life

Unrequited or not
This is hope
Life

Seed falling to the ground
To die
So that there is
Life

To give birth
To more life
To give
And die again

The cycle goes on

I choose love
Life
I choose love
Him

Thank you for your
Love
Thank you for your
Life

I choose you
I choose us
I choose hope
I choose life

I love you!

(This is what I mean when I say, I love you. And I will never stop loving you no matter how costly it is. I want to choose life.)

This is a necessity
Purging
Cleansing
Death

There is no other way
To life
But this

Darkness
obliterated
Pruning
Withered branches

Circumstantial connivance

I feel so much for you that I am not ashamed to unveil. Is this selfishness? Naye, I pray.

So it seems, I’ve been saying the same thing all over again. The push and pull. Asking and yielding.

You know full well how much I’ve recognized and so uttered that I’ve found myself in him. That some people call it ‘finding the soulmate.’ Yet there can be many of them. Maybe. It just seems to me, though, that he is the closest and dearest. Well, I wouldn’t know much having the night as young. Nonetheless, the here and now says, I like him. Can it be him. I’ve requested for him. I’ve prayed hard for him.

But you know best. That’s what pulls me otherwise. That I ought to yield to your sovereignty, your all-knowing heart. And simply because I’m scared to death to disobey and be out of your heart. That is an unbearable thought!

So is it a no? a never? Or a not yet?

I need articulation. Definition. Thinking over. My way of facing and coping. So as not to run away. Is this a confirmation of a gift. That an internalist or introvertive me has this natural gift of expression.

This normally is reserved just for the sacred being, the deepest secret and convictions which are hard to grasp.

Am I speaking Greek to the Romans? Is this something unusual and unnecessary?